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How your health hinges on your mind-over-matter resilience

How your health hinges on your mind-over-matter resilience

Henry Ford said: “Whether you think you can, or you can’t—you’re right.” While it can be easy to dismiss the phrase, there’s truth to it
How to meditate

How to meditate

A Lust for Life, with the help of 1 Giant Mind founder Jonni Pollard, are on a mission to support you getting your meditation groove on and over the coming weeks we will be sharing out some helpful tips, tools are resources
Take 5 minutes for a positive pregnancy, birth and parenting experience

Take 5 minutes for a positive pregnancy, birth and parenting experience

When you think about meditation – what comes to mind? Sitting on a mountain top, cross legged blissfully emptying your mind of all thoughts? That’s what I used to think too
Your childhood dream holds key information – Passion equals success

Your childhood dream holds key information – Passion equals success

A funny thing happens when we leave school or college and enter the workforce. We fall prone to a strange type of amnesia
Consistency is critical to recovery

Consistency is critical to recovery

I often find myself using analogies when I engage with the conversation surrounding mental health as I feel as well as normalising the conversation, it also allows those who sometimes fail to grasp the full extent
You are one thought away from feeling better in every moment

You are one thought away from feeling better in every moment

Last year, a Mum of two kids in her thirty’s came to see me. She had been diagnosed with bi-polar disorder some 5 years previously
Positive self-deception – Stop beating yourself up

Positive self-deception – Stop beating yourself up

I always go for bad boys; I never listen to wise advice; I can never get it right; nobody likes me; now, everyone thinks I’m stupid – these are some of negative self-deceptions we indulge
Rise and shine morning yoga sequence – video

Rise and shine morning yoga sequence – video

Set a good tone for the rest of your day by grounding your thoughts, stretching your body and breathing intentionally
Will you meditate with us?

Will you meditate with us?

Over the coming weeks on A Lust for Life our intention is to get as many of you as possible meditating every day, helping you to establish a daily practice. We are hugely passionate about helping you to learn to meditate
Become a healthy perfectionist

Become a healthy perfectionist

What is perfectionism, really? A personality trait that can prevent a person from being happy, basically
Feel the fear and do it anyway – 3 tips to help you find courage

Feel the fear and do it anyway – 3 tips to help you find courage

I am very lucky to be surrounded by courageous people, from whom I learn every day
Taking a step away from social anxiety

Taking a step away from social anxiety

They say that your school and college days are the best times of your life and should be cherished. Whoever first coined that saying must not have experienced social anxiety. For me, those days were filled with feelings of isolation, excessive anxiety
6 steps to spring clean your mind and body

6 steps to spring clean your mind and body

Spring is that time of the year when many of us decide to make a positive change. We become inspired to take those all-important forward steps in decluttering our lives. It’s a good time to restore your ‘get up and go’
Teaching children the language of mental health

Teaching children the language of mental health

We have come so far in the last number of years in our understanding of our physical health, and it’s great that children learn at an early age about all the factors
Let’s talk about sex addiction

Let’s talk about sex addiction

In 2009, sex addiction hit front page news when it was publicly revealed that Tiger Woods had cheated on his wife, Elin Nordegren. During a press conference, the pro golfer confessed to having attended a facility for treatment
How positive thinking changed my life

How positive thinking changed my life

I was doing a job I hated, there were no opportunities to find another and I started hating myself. In one sentence, this is what my life looked like one year ago. One negative thought led to another. I was in the vicious cycle of depression
Ireland’s Rugby Players are challenging you to Tackle Your Feelings

Ireland’s Rugby Players are challenging you to Tackle Your Feelings

Tackle Your Feelings is a mental wellbeing campaign driven and delivered by the Irish Rugby Union Players’ Association, the collective voice of professional rugby players in Ireland
10 questions with Steve Garrigan from Kodaline

10 questions with Steve Garrigan from Kodaline

Dubliner, songwriter (Steve wrote the phenomenally beautiful song High Hopes) and lead singer of Irish rock band Kodaline Steve Garrigan on yoga, eating well, anxiety, panic attacks
‘Connect to your core’ yoga session

‘Connect to your core’ yoga session

The core of our body can be an area where we can hold anxiety and stress. The initial reaction to a situation can be felt in our core first
How to empower children against bullying and strengthen emotional resilience

How to empower children against bullying and strengthen emotional resilience

I remember looking into the mirror at my reflection next to her in the school toilets. She was small, thin-built, and pretty. Somebody all the kids wanted to be with
How compassion frees you from suffering

How compassion frees you from suffering

Buddhism refers to 'enlightenment', a state that most cannot reach without suffering and difficulty, not to mention hours of daily meditation! It is commonly believed that you must undergo an incredible ‘awakening’ in order to reach this state
Meditation for the ego

Meditation for the ego

We all have feelings and emotions running around our bodies all day. Sometimes, it is helpful to check in with yourself and see how many of your emotions are positive and how many are negative
Teacher wellbeing – Can we change our perspective?

Teacher wellbeing – Can we change our perspective?

Close your eyes for a moment and contemplate this question. ‘What do I actively do on a daily basis as a teacher that demonstrates I am looking after myself?’
Are you feeling low? Exercising is one great way to help you feel better

Are you feeling low? Exercising is one great way to help you feel better

Mental health has become very topical in recent times and it is no surprise. Due to modern technology, a life of convenience - often known as sitting disease is upon us
We forget to acknowledge what has happened us – here’s one way to remind ourselves

We forget to acknowledge what has happened us – here’s one way to remind ourselves

When I qualified as a Life Coach a few years back, one of my favourite exercises to help the client become aware of their lives in the present moment was firstly to ask them to write out
Building confidence in sport and life

Building confidence in sport and life

“I volunteered to take the penalty because I felt pretty confident about scoring” - David O’Leary - scorer of the winning penalty for Ireland against Romania in the 1990 World Cup
10 Reasons why losing your sh*t can make your life come together

10 Reasons why losing your sh*t can make your life come together

Being optimistic in life is a beautiful thing, but just like your weekend Fireball shots, it works best in moderation. Monday through Friday, 9 am to 5 pm, we often play the roles of happy
Bressie: You are the true leaders – Thanks for taking part in the Vhi A Lust for Life run!

Bressie: You are the true leaders – Thanks for taking part in the Vhi A Lust for...

Standing at the starting line of the Vhi A Lust for Life run in Phoenix Park, it is hard to quantity the addictive and outstanding energy that magnifies from the 4000 participants
What tennis can teach us about newborn mental health

What tennis can teach us about newborn mental health

“You’ll spoil the baby” - ”you’re making a rod for your back” - “you’ll never get him into his own bed” - “Don’t pick him up every time he cries” - does any of this sound familiar?
An experiment in gratitude

An experiment in gratitude

From a very young age we were told by our parents to always use the magic words, please and thank you! You've probably even learned the song at school - you're singing it right now, aren't you?
4 easy breathing techniques to calm your body and mind

4 easy breathing techniques to calm your body and mind

Breathing is vital to our existence, we inhale and deliver oxygen to the body and we release carbon dioxide on our exhale. Our breath is happening all day every day
Suicide and self harm in young people – Some thoughts for parents

Suicide and self harm in young people – Some thoughts for parents

There is arguably no more frightening a discovery for a parent who one way or another finds out their child has considered or attempted suicide or intentionally harmed themselves
A Mother’s day letter to my Mum

A Mother’s day letter to my Mum

As Mother’s Day draws near, you come into my mind more often. It has been 8 years, since we got the call and rushed to be at your hospital bedside whilst you lay in a coma for days, eventually drifting away from us
Bressie: Meet anger, abuse and hate with empathy

Bressie: Meet anger, abuse and hate with empathy

Reacting with kindness and understanding when confronted with misguided negativity is the smartest move. "For every action, there is an equal and opposite re-action".
The extraordinary in the ordinary

The extraordinary in the ordinary

It is in the shaft of light or the curl of shadow. It is in the perspective of new Spring leaves, or the way they fall in Autumn. It is in the pattern of paw prints, or the ripples on a pond. It’s in these moments, the magic
Cultivating mental fitness

Cultivating mental fitness

In today’s society, physical fitness gets a lot of attention. Being physically fit generally translates to looking good, but also because a healthy body can help prevent certain conditions like heart-disease and diabetes
Reconnect to yourself: How to do a digital detox

Reconnect to yourself: How to do a digital detox

How many times a day do you think you check your phone? I remember my friend asking me this same question, after she’d caught me checking messenger
Exploring unexpected episodes of anger and aggression

Exploring unexpected episodes of anger and aggression

It is not uncommon for people to seek professional help for sudden, unexpected episodes of anger and aggression. These episodes may occur in people who are mostly gentle, reserved, kind, caring
Terry Wogan, a crisis of confidence, and me

Terry Wogan, a crisis of confidence, and me

His was a life well-lived...so what the hell am I doing with mine? It was a few Sundays ago when I woke up at the unusually-early-for-me weekend time of quarter to ten. Bleary, I switched on the radio and heard an item about Terry Wogan
Bressie: Respect the mind – it deserves a workout too

Bressie: Respect the mind – it deserves a workout too

Much of what we hear in the media and throughout the expanding dialogue surrounding mental health and emotional wellbeing has been centred around distressing issues such as depression, anxiety and suicide
What makes you vulnerable makes you beautiful

What makes you vulnerable makes you beautiful

As a therapist I work with some of the most courageous yet vulnerable people imaginable
The path to healing requires commitment

The path to healing requires commitment

I lay silently against the hospital sheets watching the doctors discussing me. "It’s been three weeks and there is no improvement, we need to operate, remove the ulcerated part of her bowel and she may need to get a colostomy bag."
The power of the imagined story

The power of the imagined story

Our neighbor Paddy died the year I was born, but his house did not. Like Mary Celeste his last days were preserved in a dusty stillness. Not a thing was moved within the confines of his home for over a decade after his death
5 ways to love your body

5 ways to love your body

Your body is supposed to be your friend but for many of us we are at war with our body and our life is the battle field. Do you feel consumed by anger, desperation and shame because your body doesn't look a certain way?
Bressie: Accept and love yourself for who you are

Bressie: Accept and love yourself for who you are

If ever a television commercial caught the essence and personality of a culture it would have to be the Aldi TV advert where a young woman refuses to take a sincere well-intentioned compliment from a friend
Mindfulness Matters – ‘Irish Weather Inside-Out’ campaign for schools and all those up for a challenge

Mindfulness Matters – ‘Irish Weather Inside-Out’ campaign for schools and all those up for a challenge

What is the most talked about subject in Ireland? The weather! What’s the least talked about subject in Ireland? Feelings and emotions or what we call the ‘Internal weather’! Mindfulness matters because everything changes moment to moment
Bullying in Irish secondary schools – Find the courage to speak out

Bullying in Irish secondary schools – Find the courage to speak out

As a previous victim of bullying in secondary school, I remember the feeling of waking up, filled with dread and anxiety putting on my uniform, walking up to the school gate
Healing self-harm

Healing self-harm

While recently mental health has been talked about more and more, and as a result stigmas have decreased, self-harm is still seen as somewhat of a taboo subject
Help: My friend is in trouble, what do I do?

Help: My friend is in trouble, what do I do?

Aware, as you might know, is Ireland’s national organisation to help people with depression or bipolar disorder and people who are concerned for someone they care about
Holistic grieving

Holistic grieving

There are three absolute certainties in life – birth, change and death. When we grieve we are dealing with all three at the same time - the death of a loved one, the huge changes that inevitably brings and the birth of our new life without them
Get happier by eliminating negative sources of energy – for me, the booze!

Get happier by eliminating negative sources of energy – for me, the booze!

Happiness cannot be found out there in the external world; it cannot be achieved as a result of obtaining some extravagant material thing, or possession, or position of higher status
Neuroplasticity – help your flexible brain create positive neural pathways everyday

Neuroplasticity – help your flexible brain create positive neural pathways everyday

Imagine you lived in a world where from a young age you were taught to look after your mental well-being using a similar daily routine to brushing your teeth
7 Life lessons they won’t ever teach you at school

7 Life lessons they won’t ever teach you at school

Every time we make a decision where we ignore our heart and go with our head, prioritising logic and reason, we can often end up having regrets
Bressie: Looking for that state of calm? Let it flow

Bressie: Looking for that state of calm? Let it flow

Improve mental fitness by achieving moments of 'hyper-focus', when your mind and body are in perfect fusion
10 Questions with Shane MacGowan

10 Questions with Shane MacGowan

Shane MacGowan, musician and singer, known for being the lead singer and songwriter of The Pogues. He has also recorded and performed with many other artists such as Nick Cave, Christy Moore, The Jesus and Mary Chain
Equine Therapy: How horses help people find answers within

Equine Therapy: How horses help people find answers within

I will do my best to describe the benefits of the EAGALA model of Equine Assisted Psychotherapy as a therapeutic tool for supporting people to look at their mental health
Why we need to teach children about the new science of stress

Why we need to teach children about the new science of stress

When I asked my class of 31 ten year olds recently ‘Who has experienced stress in their lives?’ every single hand went up. We then shared stories of the different events or situations
Obligation has a lot to answer for

Obligation has a lot to answer for

We live in a world full of doing, always rushing around trying to get everything we need to get done in a day, working hard, doing errands, making sure everything is alright with our family, our friends, the world
The mental trap of Chronic Insecurity

The mental trap of Chronic Insecurity

In the coming few articles I hope to explain and explore the practical ways in which we (all of us that is), as humans create our own mental traps and how this happens despite our best efforts to avoid them
Brothers in arms; “Why we need to talk, listen and act.”

Brothers in arms; “Why we need to talk, listen and act.”

Something that had been playing on my mind leading up to the World Cup was the fact that I would have to share a room with one of my team-mates
Why you should always have mindfulness as a backup without the need to become a monk

Why you should always have mindfulness as a backup without the need to become a monk

We all know physical exercise is great for mental health; it’s like fertiliser for the brain. However, if you’ve ever had a sports injury you’ll know that the toughest battle is mental
Infant mental health: A critical window of opportunity for future wellbeing and mental health

Infant mental health: A critical window of opportunity for future wellbeing and mental health

“Mental health issues are the great epidemic of this generation” were the impassioned words of musician and mental health campaigner Niall Breslin (Bressie)
Bressie: Identify your triggers to combat anxiety

Bressie: Identify your triggers to combat anxiety

I'll be honest, sometimes I have to make the same mistake three or four times before I cop on. You see, the difference with my anxiety and depression now, compared to the past is my self-awareness and ability to analyse the 'triggers'
Compassion every day

Compassion every day

Had you asked me five years ago, while I was undertaking my training in clinical psychology, what compassion meant, I might have said that it meant giving yourself a night off or being kind to someone
10 Questions with Blindboy Boatclub from The Rubberbandits

10 Questions with Blindboy Boatclub from The Rubberbandits

Here Bressie interviews Blindboy Boatclub, one half of the Limerick hip-hop duo The Rubberbandits. A creative soulful force of nature he talks mental health and much more
Reclaim your power in moments of injustice

Reclaim your power in moments of injustice

Recently, I found myself under verbal attack from a stranger. The incident came as a bolt out of the blue, with no warning. I had just received a standing ovation after giving an open and honest speech about my own life to a huge audience
Before we can be better, we must be well

Before we can be better, we must be well

At this prologue stage of the new year, many who committed to a new chapter of change after a debaucherous and exorbitant festive season, have reached the realisation that real positive lifestyle change can be more arduous
Feed your body so you can disempower stress and anxiety

Feed your body so you can disempower stress and anxiety

Telling an already stressed and anxious individual to ‘slow down’, ‘relax’, ‘don’t over think things’, in my mind is adding fuel to the proverbial fire
10 Questions with Founder of Waterford Whispers News Colm Williamson

10 Questions with Founder of Waterford Whispers News Colm Williamson

Founder of the brilliant Waterford Whispers News Colm Williamson, chats with Bressie about the creative brain, the importance of satire, mental health, what he’s most proud of, and people shitting themselves…
Why parental self–care is essential for children’s emotional wellbeing

Why parental self–care is essential for children’s emotional wellbeing

Parenting is a complete rollercoaster ride from conception to forever. Nothing can match up to creating a human being and witnessing their emerging personalities as they develop
Keeping well and avoiding turmeric enemas

Keeping well and avoiding turmeric enemas

Like someone who is prone to chest infections or tonsillitis, I am prone to depression and anxiety. And like someone prone to chest infections, I’m more likely to get ‘a dose’ if I haven’t been looking after myself
Removing the alcohol obstacle: Getting back to the music I love

Removing the alcohol obstacle: Getting back to the music I love

I am a musician, and a struggling one at that. But who of us is not?! For about ten years I have been playing gigs, since I was a teenager. They have ranged from singing in the corners of half full restaurants to playing on big stages at large festivals
I wish I had let myself be happier

I wish I had let myself be happier

When Bronnie Ware took a job as a palliative care assistant nursing the dying through their final days she probably didn’t realise the experience was going to be such a transformative one
Get a buzz without the booze – Destigmatising booze free socialising in Ireland

Get a buzz without the booze – Destigmatising booze free socialising in Ireland

Three years ago, for the first time in my life and never previously considered, I decided to take a break from alcohol. I was a social drinker but it sometimes put a shadow over me that I never fully recognised until hindsight made me recollect
Challenge yourself and watch your life change for the better

Challenge yourself and watch your life change for the better

According to a study, one-third of people give up on their new year resolutions by the end of March, over 50% quit it by the end of June, and 92% of people fail to achieve
Physical and mental burnout in exercise and sport

Physical and mental burnout in exercise and sport

Burnout in sports has become a prominent topic in the media in recent times for sports people. It may also be an issue for serial January exercisers
Support of peers was key to recovery

Support of peers was key to recovery

The last year of my life has allowed me gain a clarity of thought that for so many years escaped me. Over the recent past I have obtained and refined the knowledge to allow myself deal much more effectively with my own mental and emotional wellbeing
Meditation and reflective journaling

Meditation and reflective journaling

As we begin this new calendar year, we are granted with an amazing opportunity to connect, reflect and look forward. When I write of connecting, I mean in the sense of 'self-connecting'
A new year of self-care, mindfulness and improved well-being made simple

A new year of self-care, mindfulness and improved well-being made simple

With the dawning of a brand new year upon us, we often attempt to ‘begin again’ with our diet, our fitness plan or with a new set of goals
Helping children develop resilience, manage stress and strong emotions using the ‘90 Second Rule’

Helping children develop resilience, manage stress and strong emotions using the ‘90 Second Rule’

Research shows us that emotional regulation is one of the key factors for the development of resilience and wellbeing. This makes sense when you think about it
How to check in on someone you love

How to check in on someone you love

Even if you’re very worried about a loved one’s mental health, it can be very daunting to think about broaching the subject with them
Goal setting for the New Year – It’s simple but it’s not easy

Goal setting for the New Year – It’s simple but it’s not easy

As I write this in a hotel lobby, a Christmas song is drifting down the corridor. A soft voice is singing “It’s that time of year” It’s from a Christmas song and I’m sure you can probably sing it
How to survive a Christmas family spat

How to survive a Christmas family spat

In every relationship there are at least two topics that cannot be resolved. Christmas is not the time to discuss them. Find out what you can do to cope with family disputes during festivities
If Christmas is so merry, then why am I feeling so bad?

If Christmas is so merry, then why am I feeling so bad?

Research shows that our life satisfaction and emotional well-being is usually lower around Christmas in comparison to other times of a year. If you don’t find Christmas so merry, don’t worry, you’re not alone!
The difference between baby blues and post natal depression

The difference between baby blues and post natal depression

I still have visions of me wheeling my trolley around the postnatal ward, looking in at my most precious baby girl, tears of joy and sadness streaming down my face. What was wrong with me? Why couldn’t I hold it together?
The madness of Christmas shopping – don’t let consumerism consume you

The madness of Christmas shopping – don’t let consumerism consume you

Beware: Research shows that giving and receiving Christmas gifts may reduce our happiness
Simple Pilates exercises to help ease anxiety at this time of year

Simple Pilates exercises to help ease anxiety at this time of year

In this video you will see me guide Laura through some basic Pilate’s exercises that can have a great effect on the mind, helping to ease any mind strain you may be feeling under at this time of year
What to do if you are concerned about your teenager’s mental health

What to do if you are concerned about your teenager’s mental health

Mental health problems do occur among children and teenagers. Current statistics suggest that about 15% of young people between 12 and 15 experience a significant mental health problem (Lynch et al, 2004)
Forgiveness is for you, not anyone else

Forgiveness is for you, not anyone else

Forgiveness is not about justifying someone’s offence, forgetting their behaviour, nor reconciliation. It is way more than this. It is making yourself feel more positive. Think of a person in your life who cannot forgive, be it a friend, family member (or perhaps you)
Looking aftter your mental health, well-being and prosperity

Looking aftter your mental health, well-being and prosperity

Psychology is unique among the human sciences and helping professions for the way it uses research to help people solve or cope with problems
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URGENT HELP
A Lust for Life does not provide crisis support, so if you or someone you are concerned about is in crisis and needs help urgently, please contact
Pieta House
PIETA HOUSE
1800 247 247
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Childline
SAMARITANS
116 123 (ROI & UK)
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Samaritans
CHILDLINE
1800 666666
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We know, we know, pop ups are absolutely no craic. But seeing as you are here anyway, which means you must be a sound head, we thought we’d tap you on the shoulder and ask for your help
We rely on the generosity of the public to fund our work and so far together we have achieved great things! Please do continue to support us so we can provide future generations in Ireland with the resources to recognise and talk about their emotions, and equip them to navigate the ever-changing world around them as they grow
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