Grief encounters: Karen Docherty tells her story of losing both her sons to suicide
Suicide is the leading cause of death for young people, both in Ireland and worldwide
Why your anxiety wont just f**k off
Most have about as much interest in a relationship with anxiety as they’d have dangling their jewels near a crocodiles jaw. However, the consequences of the former (wanting anxiety out of your life forever)
Grief Encounters: Fighting For Answers with Stephen Teap
Stephen Teap’s life changed forever in July 2017, as he lost his wife Irene to cervical cancer. Their story - which is known to many across Ireland
It may sound absurd to say there is a formula for happiness, but various neurological scientists have agreed that four main hormones and chemicals are responsible for the activation of happiness in your brain
How to embrace and inhabit The Calmness Habit
Love, calmness, confidence, gratitude, hope and happiness: these are the six emotions that tip the balance of our mindset in favour of a positive outlook
Changing your relationship with anxiety
My obsession with language grew out of the realization that self-talk and anxiety drove me towards a life of chronic addiction
Hi all....we took the Christmas and first 2 months to consider this article and feel it appropriate to discuss Stress at work and how we might change that for the better. It’s inevitable really that there will be ‘stressful’ days; weeks etc
Teaching your kids that therapy is important
Mental health is every bit as important as physical health, and if we’re not ashamed to go see a doctor when we’re feeling physically unwell
With work related stress and health care costs on the rise in Ireland and elsewhere the need for investment in corporate wellness cannot be over stated. A 2018 study by the Economic and Social Research Institute (ESRI)
Problems don’t exist in the present
Do you ever dwell on past events, wishing you done things differently? Do you ever wish the weeks away, living only for weekends? Do you ever catch yourself daydreaming, wishing you were somewhere else?
Part 3: Anxiety and parent-child relationships
As you can see from the title, today's blog is all about dealing with anxiety in a parental relationship. Of course, I can only talk about it in the perspective of the child
Your energy is a powerful force
We hear people say it every day “I am full of energy or my energy is low”, but what does that really mean? Your energy levels are not only affected by the foods that you eat but also by your thoughts and emotions
Last week, I celebrated a personal victory. I ran 7K. Now, I know how this will sound to someone who runs marathons. Piece of cake!
“I dedicated my latest book to Cocktail Girl, this persona I had created for myself as the magazine girl,” laughs Ruby Warrington, “but without the cocktails she doesn’t exist.”
What are you doing at this very moment in time? It's something we do every second of every day, but we sometimes take for granted. You are breathing. Chances are you've taken your attention towards your breath
Is thinking an evolutionary mistake?
Anthony de Mello was a Jesuit priest, psychotherapist, best-selling author, and spiritual teacher. His early life was dominated by rigid Christian beliefs, but over time, he began exploring Eastern traditions
Part 2: Anxiety and romantic relationships
Part 2 of the three-part series of blogs discussing anxiety and relationships. There might be some cross over in what I’m saying in this one and the last one
Grief Encounters: Jane McKenny of the LauraLynn Foundation
Jane McKenna is the founder of Ireland's only children's hospice, and The Laura Lynn Foundation, both named after her two children, Laura and Lynn
Finding meaning and direction in life
Do you ever feel lost, aimless, or a little confused, like you’re sailing through life without a rudder to guide you? If so, it’s likely that you’re not aligned with your values
Part 1: Anxiety and friendships
I have decided that I want to start a three-part series discussing anxiety within three different relationships. These relationships will be friendships, romantic relationships and relationships with parents/kids
From microbes to attitude adjustment: alternative approaches to stress management
Stress is an integral component of modern life. Hans Selye, the father of modern stress theory once said that...
Grief Encounters: Parenting through grief, and Marco Pierre White on losing his mother
When a child experiences the death of a parent, the emotional trauma can be devastating
Heartfulness meditation for living a life in balance
Dear Reader, I want to share a motion from my Heartfulness meditation practice with you. This is my choice of medicine currently. Today is a good day
Would you speak to a friend the way in which you speak to yourself? A question that has been asked of me on numerous occasions. In essence I know that deep down my self talk wouldn't be the most compassionate
Mindfulness; My ticket back to life
Have you ever questioned if what you are feeling is normal, what you are thinking is normal, what you do is normal, over and over? It can be fairly exhausting yet it becomes a habit, a habit you know isn’t quite right but you know no different
A smarter way to change unhelpful habits
If I could just stop smoking…if I could stop eating junk food…if I could stop saying yes to the demands of everyone else…if I could just stop worrying
Energy is the true currency of life. The more you have, the more you ‘do’. I’m not just talking about physical energy. I’m talking about life energy
The healing power of the breath & the sea
Its January 2019, Winter in Ireland, and yes, I am sea swimming in a swim suit. The journey of grief and loss has its place, and my journey is no more complicated
Grief Encounters: Gerry Collins – The Man Who Moved a Nation
In early 2014 Gerry Collins’ moving words carried across the nation. This was due to his central role in the ads for the HSE’s QUIT campaign
The best January “detox” you can give yourself
With all the talk about rubbish ‘detoxes’ in January, Jennifer Coleman talks about detoxing from one of our biggest addictions this new year: social media
Eckhart Tolle is a spiritual teacher and author of The Power of Now, widely regarded as one of the most influential spiritual books of our time. At the age of 29, he experienced a profound inner transformation
Letting go of those we’ve let go
The choice we make about the people we spend our time with is a pretty important one. Nobody wants to live with regrets about a relationship that didn’t merit their. We may begin hoping that it contains all the ingredients
We are naturally drawn towards negativity. That’s why you’re standing here today. We evolved a bias towards negativity in order to survive
Surviving bad times with an open heart
In the UK three out of 4 people have been so stressed at least once over the last year that they have felt overwhelmed, or unable to cope
Why Darwin wants you to meditate: An evolutionary understanding of the human brain and meditation
In many ways, humans have won the battle versus nature. We aren’t yet immortal
Grief Encounters: Taking Action in Grief
Grief Encounters is a weekly podcast series that looks at an issue that affects us all and yet remains so difficult to talk about: grief. Hosted by Venetia Quick and Sasha Hamrogue
A comfort zone is not always a bad thing
‘A ship is always safe at the shore, but that is not what it is built for’, according to Albert Einstein. ‘Old ways won’t open new doors’ according to someone else
Sasha Hamrogue writes about grief and is the host of the wonderful new ‘Grief Encounters’ podcast, a series that looks at coping with death and dying. It was summer when we found out that we were having a girl
Why Letting Go is Important and Tips to Help You Let Go
Think about something that you are holding onto, and decide to let go. Write it on a piece of paper or write it in your journal. Is it a fantasy? Is it a grudge?
Mind-Reading as part of First Fortnight
We’re always looking for brilliant book recommendations (and reviews!) for our Book Club. And First Fortnight have delivered on some wonderful recommendations
Facing life living with a disability
Living with disability can be tough. Life is made a hundred times more difficult. The things you could do, you can’t do (or can’t do as easily). It’s tough but not the end of the world. If life gives you lemons, make some lemonade
Why you should start a memory jar this new year
It’s easy to look back on a year and think “well that was bad”. Some times a year was just harder than others have been
Close your eyes and learn as Bliain na Gaeilge draws to a close
In an Ireland that has tried to move forward and shake off the Celtic Tiger diversion, a detour to the past has presented itself
This time of year can be the brightest yet the darkest of times for some. I guess it all comes down to your life positioning. You sometimes hear people complain about the dark, dreary and long ‘winterish’ evenings
New Year’s Resolutions: change is optional
We have just celebrated Christmas, some people were filled with joy and excitement, while others may have struggled for one reason or another and are glad it’s over
Reflecting on the year gone by
As 2018 draws to a close today, the world around us reflects collectively on the year that has just passed. We consider the major events – globally, and the events of our lives, that made this year memorable
How many people do you pass on a daily basis without the slightest inclination of what may be occurring in their lives? We couldn’t but know…We have all heard the phrase ‘don’t judge a book by its cover’…
Help your child take a stand against bullying
According to StopBullying.gov, one in four school-aged children report that they have been the victim of bullying in the past
When my mind is busy and what I'm thinking about is absolute garbage I can slip into the present moment and focus my attention and awareness on the now. It shifts my spotlight to my present moment reality
Lifting someone’s day with a random act of kindness
I recently walked up to the counter of my local coffee shop and the barista was beaming. She handed me a note which said: “thank you for earlier Brian, this one’s on me.”
Anxious, stressed, depressed? You’re not alone!
Having struggled with anxiety for many years, I now know two things for certain: Talking about it helps - a lot! Lots of people are struggling with mental health issues
Avoiding family arguments at Christmas
Ivor Browne, the eminent Irish psychiatrist’s autobiography, ‘Music and Madness’ contains an Introduction
Turning a negative into a positive
Focus on growth and progress. I’m one of the happiest people I know. But I’m not supposed to be happy, not by normal standards anyway. I’m not rich
Are we looking after our teenagers?
I came out about my own mental health struggles years after going through the education system. I was a good enough student in school, maybe not naturally as smart as other people in my year but I knew I wanted to be a teacher
I’ve read far and wide on tactics to overcome anxiety. This includes books, blogs, my PhD research, and my life coaching practice
“The loss of my daughter’s life is obviously beyond tragic. But it has allowed others to live”
The story of Bill Conner of Madison, Wisconsin is not one that would automatically bring gratitude to mind
Managing mental health in work
I dreamed of connecting with a wider community through writing for A Lust For Life on previous occasions, and this is my third article on the site! Why did I want to connect? Because my experience of bipolar disorder
You have three choices in EVERY situation – one of them is ALWAYS wrong
Life is full of challenges, but problems only exist in our mind
My recipe for self-love and self-care
When people think of self-love and self-care they might wonder why it’s such a vital part of wellness. People embark on their own journey and along the way they discover key ingredients that help them
- Storing Memories is a Way of Holding On. The Happy Sad Box Reminds Us that our Lives are a Gift to be Treasured - it is our Memories that keep us strong, resilient and hopeful even on our darkest day
Don’t give up on me – a silent cry from the heart
Seeing this beautiful quote from Beau pulled at my heart strings as not only had I been the wounded beast, but also have faced the wounded beast within my own circle
Notes to me: a reminder to practice self-compassion
When going through a moment of change or difficulty, I often forget that what we need most is self-compassion. It reminds of us of our vulnerability, but also that what we’re feeling is valid and in many ways real
How can sleep pattern affect our mental health?
This month’s article regarding sleep patterns and how it can affect our mental health particularly resonates with us as we both have young children and like many of you out there
The art of simply noticing. Mindfulness is often defined as “the awareness that arises by paying attention, on purpose, in the present moment, and non-judgmentally.”
Close your eyes and notice where your breath is entering and exiting your body. Notice how your nostrils expand on the inhale and how your breath sweeps over your upper lip on the exhale. Notice the sound of your inhale and the sound of your exhale
Nature is a powerful form of therapy and healing in and of itself, and it seems that we have forgotten the restorative power that it holds and always offers without asking for anything in return
How to protect your mental health at winter
As the days become darker and shorter many of us can end up feeling our mood reflects the gloomier days, our tempers are shorter and the light has gone from our step
“And another one bites the dust…oh why can I not conquer love?”
I’m sitting in work on a Friday, listening to Sia’s Elastic Heart as it plays on the radio, my own heart thudding in my chest as I re – read my girlfriend’s Whats App texts
Sit down and notice where your breath is entering and exiting your body. Notice the sound of your inhale and exhale. Bring your attention to your head and notice the space from the bridge of the nose to the back of the head. Notice the space from the right ear to the left ear
As the autumn leaves line the floor of the forest, gently and silently falling from the towering trees above me, it reminds me like the seasons, all things change. I stand for a few moments to take in their beauty and magnificence
You cannot change anyone – This is why
We all have people in our lives that cause us distress. It might be an alcoholic parent, a partner with depression, a tearaway sibling, or someone that you care for
The MentalHealthGuys, both of us being 30+ with several young children, and having bought property during the boom times only to realise negative equity in more recent year, we’ve had our fair share of stress
Life is simple if you follow these steps
Life is full of challenges. I’m not denying that — I’ve had my fair share — but life can be simple if you introduce principles into your daily routine
What it’s like to die before you die
Fifteen years of addiction had taken a climactic hold. I lost my job, my mind, every important relationship in my life, and my body was rapidly deteriorating. I finally decided that I needed help
Hands up if you’ve ever been late: Self-compassion and your brain
Have you ever been late for anything, perhaps even in the last six months? When you were late, did you give yourself a break for it
Recommended reading from A Lust for Life on World Mental Health Day
Today marks World Mental Health Day. Thousands of organisations and people all over the world are holding events, talks, running campaigns and making lots of noise
Mindful Living…. The key to survival in the midst of chaos?
The modern world is switched on 24/7. External distraction, busyness and noise are the norm these days. Internally it can also be the same way
Mindful minutes followed by mindless hours
Along the spectrum of ‘inner development’ seekers, spiritual enlightenment can often be met with a plethora of challenges. Semantics being one of them…
Why we can’t explain the world through language
Ludwig Wittgenstein was a genius, and one of the most influential thinkers of the 20th century. Born into one of Europe’s richest families, he initially sought out
Are our young people living in a world of uncertainty?
This year's theme for World Mental Health Day on October 10th is ‘Young People and Mental Health in a Changing World’ and the National launch of Mental Health Week
I am often asked for advice from undergraduates about what career path they should take after their degree, and am always delighted when they express an interest in neuroscience
Cutting through the bullsh*t in a frantic modern world
Tim Ferriss is a highly successful author, podcaster, entrepreneur and investor. He has written five #1 New York Times bestselling books, and the success of his podcast
The power of Manifesting Through Presence
Where you put your attention will flourish and where you take your attention away from will wither. Before you start reading – take 30 seconds to try this simple experiment now
How would really knowing you matter change how you think about yourself?
What if You Matter without the hair and make-up, without the ripped muscles and toned body, without the job title
Conquer your fears by mastering your self-talk
I suffered with chronic anxiety for most of my adult life. The physical sensations of which were focused around my chest. Fully supported by an overactive mind
Reminding teenagers to spend time on self-care
It was a Sunday evening when my sixteen-year-old daughter had the worst meltdown I had seen from her since she had been a toddler
“I finally found something that calms me down” If you think you can’t draw or...
Zentangle is the mindful drawing of repetitive patterns that create fun & beautiful images
Does every cloud really have a silver lining?
The cliché, ‘Every cloud had a silver lining’ can come across as somewhat annoying and condescending, especially when you are in the middle of a crisis
Cleaning as therapy? On Instagram, it is….
Everyone’s suddenly cleaning on Instagram! In the last few weeks, 3 ladies and their cleaning routines, tips and advice have taken the online platform by storm
Every day we can feel bombarded with actions and opinions that are different from our own. We can feel like the stories others are sharing make us feel uneasy. We cannot control everyone else
