Mental Health

Helping your child come to terms with their sexuality

Helping your child come to terms with their sexuality

An important part of our sexual development occurs during our teenage years when our bodies begin to develop into adult bodies and we begin to act on urges we have
Get your resilience in first

Get your resilience in first

My doctor always starts with two or three measurements of how my health is; blood pressure, listen to the chest and maybe give a small cough. And then we carry on with the consultation
The Bearded Man’s battle for suicide prevention – What is suicide?

The Bearded Man’s battle for suicide prevention – What is suicide?

Suicide - a word we've all heard of and for a lot of people, have been affected by. We've all either heard or known someone who has died by suicide
Hug it out: A Summer ‘Project’ for kids to help nurture mental health

Hug it out: A Summer ‘Project’ for kids to help nurture mental health

Everything that a person experiences, their thoughts, tastes, smells, sounds, feelings; all of it requires underlying neural activity in the brain
Minding your mental health during the school holidays

Minding your mental health during the school holidays

Many students find their mental health suffers over summer. This may be due feeling a lack of focus in one’s life, due to strained relationships at home, or feeling isolated in a locality
Setting boundaries

Setting boundaries

‘Sorry seems to be the hardest word'. I disagree. I think No is the hardest word, saying No to unreasonable demands; saying No to unhealthy behaviours and attitudes; and saying No to the critical inner dialog which plagues everyone at some point
Practice using the power of your imagination with this positive visualisation

Practice using the power of your imagination with this positive visualisation

Negative thinking is a habit and habits can be broken. Negative self-talk (the inner critic) is often a habit of which we are not even aware
Combat teacher burnout as the summer approaches: tips for you and your classroom

Combat teacher burnout as the summer approaches: tips for you and your classroom

So it’s mid-June and that time of year again. The sun is shining (well most days anyway) and the summer holidays are so close, we can almost smell the sweet scent of July!
It’s up to us to replenish our reservoirs of well-being

It’s up to us to replenish our reservoirs of well-being

Did you know that researchers have discovered that 40% of the differences in happiness and well-being levels of individuals is accounted for by individual behaviour?
Dealing with manipulative people

Dealing with manipulative people

The art of manipulation is alive and well. I call it an art as its proponents appear to spend years crafting their skills and masterfully pulling the strings of others for their own gain. All manipulators have an agenda and that agenda is control
Understanding anorexia

Understanding anorexia

“It’s not about being thin for me, I look in the mirror and I’m ashamed for my friends to see me like this, I look emaciated.” Around 80 people a year in Ireland die from Anorexia Nervosa which affects up to 200,000 people, according to Bodywhys
Self-care tools for children starting out on their social media journey

Self-care tools for children starting out on their social media journey

Young people are spending a lot of time on social media, and in preparing them for it, parents usually advise them on how to keep safe (not posting any identifying information etc)
Child and adolescent psychotherapy using play

Child and adolescent psychotherapy using play

So what is child and adolescent psychotherapy and why use it? And does it have to do with play? Play - First we must realise that play is vital to a child’s development
The new definition of wellbeing

The new definition of wellbeing

Wellbeing is a term that is used a lot, however despite it being the very thing we all desire, wellbeing is not well understood. Perhaps this is the reason why so few of us report experiencing it as often as we would like
How to take a break from alcohol

How to take a break from alcohol

Giving up alcohol sounds so simple - surely you just stop? The beer can’t jump into your mouth. Yet when most people try they fail
Managing stress before it becomes too much

Managing stress before it becomes too much

A little bit of stress in your life is great to make you motivated and get things done. However this good stress can turn into bad stress really quickly when we’re under pressure and don’t give ourselves the time to recover
Encouraging confidence: How to support child’s self esteem

Encouraging confidence: How to support child’s self esteem

Building confidence in your child is a sure way to set them up for success in life in all ways. It will ensure that they lead a happy life full of positive energy and will help them stay strong
Teacher appreciation day: why it is beneficial and top tips on how to organise it in your school

Teacher appreciation day: why it is beneficial and top tips on how to organise it in your...

We know that teaching is not a business and is not dependent on a profit and loss system so yes this makes it incredibly different to running a company
Stop listening to the devil on your shoulder – the power of positive self talk

Stop listening to the devil on your shoulder – the power of positive self talk

Every one of us has an inner dialogue with ourselves on a daily basis, even though at times we are not overtly aware of it. We often see cartoons where there is a devil on one shoulder
Forest Therapy: Where the forest is the therapist

Forest Therapy: Where the forest is the therapist

I have always been deeply connected with nature, spending time in a beautiful, calm and tranquil forest restores my vitality after being drained by the hectic pace of city life
The Positive Habit – 3 lucky readers can gain free access to this powerful self-help programme

The Positive Habit – 3 lucky readers can gain free access to this powerful self-help programme

So what is the Positive Habit? “The Positive Habit”, devised by Clinical Hypnotherapist, Fiona Brennan is a six week work-out for your mental health
Visualisation – the mind’s ally

Visualisation – the mind’s ally

Hey guys, so we are now in the first week of May and edging closer to the months where we can safely leave the house without being attacked by snow, hailstones or other forms of mother nature’s wrath
5 secrets about therapy other Mums wish you knew

5 secrets about therapy other Mums wish you knew

For many women and their families, having a baby is the most significant life-changing event they will ever experience. There are many organisations that can help you adjust
How to support children to worry less and develop mental fitness

How to support children to worry less and develop mental fitness

Worrying does not just automatically stop when someone suggests that you stop and this is true for adults and children alike
Debunking 3 meditation myths

Debunking 3 meditation myths

A Lust for Life, with the help of 1 Giant Mind founder Jonni Pollard, are on a mission to support you getting your meditation groove on and over the coming weeks we will be sharing out some helpful tips, tools are resources
SpunOut.ie launches their #KnowAnxiety campaign

SpunOut.ie launches their #KnowAnxiety campaign

My name is Marie Duffy and I’m the editor with Ireland’s Youth Information website SpunOut.ie. For those of you who don’t know, SpunOut.ie works with 16-25 year olds around Ireland
Some truths about suicide – my personal thoughts

Some truths about suicide – my personal thoughts

There is a lot of talk in the media at present about mental health and this is fantastic, the more people that feel comfortable talking about issues out there, the better
The battery life of a teacher – Top tips on how to keep your battery topped up

The battery life of a teacher – Top tips on how to keep your battery topped up

I recently began a discussion with a group of teachers about their ‘battery life’ as a teacher. I showed them an image that illustrated the ‘battery life of a teacher’ as being full on
Mindful walking for mothers

Mindful walking for mothers

The father of modern medicine, Hippocrates, said, “walking is man’s best medicine”. It’s a wonderful, gentle exercise for pregnancy and beyond with benefits for body and brain
Challenges of meditation – 7 tips to diffuse life’s weapons of mass distraction

Challenges of meditation – 7 tips to diffuse life’s weapons of mass distraction

To help keep the process flowing, here are seven tips and tricks to help diffuse life’s weapons of mass distraction and stay on the meditation horse
Epigenetics and the subconscious mind

Epigenetics and the subconscious mind

In addition to the wonders that neuroscience has contributed to illustrate human kind's ability to choose how we wish to think, feel and behave, there is also a growing body of scientific research into the area of epigenetics
To err is human

To err is human

“I pushed him away” – Maeve said – “and the thoughts of what I have done haunt me”. When one of my clients began telling the group her story, everyone listened to her with curiosity. What could she have possibly done, that was so bad
Creating a culture of well-being in our schools

Creating a culture of well-being in our schools

There is a huge impetus at the moment toward putting well-being and mental health at the heart of our children’s school experience
Quitting alcohol for optimial health

Quitting alcohol for optimial health

There is plenty of science to suggest alcohol is a gateway drug to other drugs. A few pints pave the way to a few lines, a few smokes or worse
How your health hinges on your mind-over-matter resilience

How your health hinges on your mind-over-matter resilience

Henry Ford said: “Whether you think you can, or you can’t—you’re right.” While it can be easy to dismiss the phrase, there’s truth to it
How to meditate

How to meditate

A Lust for Life, with the help of 1 Giant Mind founder Jonni Pollard, are on a mission to support you getting your meditation groove on and over the coming weeks we will be sharing out some helpful tips, tools are resources
Take 5 minutes for a positive pregnancy, birth and parenting experience

Take 5 minutes for a positive pregnancy, birth and parenting experience

When you think about meditation – what comes to mind? Sitting on a mountain top, cross legged blissfully emptying your mind of all thoughts? That’s what I used to think too
Consistency is critical to recovery

Consistency is critical to recovery

I often find myself using analogies when I engage with the conversation surrounding mental health as I feel as well as normalising the conversation, it also allows those who sometimes fail to grasp the full extent
You are one thought away from feeling better in every moment

You are one thought away from feeling better in every moment

Last year, a Mum of two kids in her thirty’s came to see me. She had been diagnosed with bi-polar disorder some 5 years previously
Positive self-deception – Stop beating yourself up

Positive self-deception – Stop beating yourself up

I always go for bad boys; I never listen to wise advice; I can never get it right; nobody likes me; now, everyone thinks I’m stupid – these are some of negative self-deceptions we indulge
Will you meditate with us?

Will you meditate with us?

Over the coming weeks on A Lust for Life our intention is to get as many of you as possible meditating every day, helping you to establish a daily practice. We are hugely passionate about helping you to learn to meditate
Become a healthy perfectionist

Become a healthy perfectionist

What is perfectionism, really? A personality trait that can prevent a person from being happy, basically
Feel the fear and do it anyway – 3 tips to help you find courage

Feel the fear and do it anyway – 3 tips to help you find courage

I am very lucky to be surrounded by courageous people, from whom I learn every day
Taking a step away from social anxiety

Taking a step away from social anxiety

They say that your school and college days are the best times of your life and should be cherished. Whoever first coined that saying must not have experienced social anxiety. For me, those days were filled with feelings of isolation, excessive anxiety
Teaching children the language of mental health

Teaching children the language of mental health

We have come so far in the last number of years in our understanding of our physical health, and it’s great that children learn at an early age about all the factors
Let’s talk about sex addiction

Let’s talk about sex addiction

In 2009, sex addiction hit front page news when it was publicly revealed that Tiger Woods had cheated on his wife, Elin Nordegren. During a press conference, the pro golfer confessed to having attended a facility for treatment
Ireland’s Rugby Players are challenging you to Tackle Your Feelings

Ireland’s Rugby Players are challenging you to Tackle Your Feelings

Tackle Your Feelings is a mental wellbeing campaign driven and delivered by the Irish Rugby Union Players’ Association, the collective voice of professional rugby players in Ireland
How to empower children against bullying and strengthen emotional resilience

How to empower children against bullying and strengthen emotional resilience

I remember looking into the mirror at my reflection next to her in the school toilets. She was small, thin-built, and pretty. Somebody all the kids wanted to be with
Teacher wellbeing – Can we change our perspective?

Teacher wellbeing – Can we change our perspective?

Close your eyes for a moment and contemplate this question. ‘What do I actively do on a daily basis as a teacher that demonstrates I am looking after myself?’
We forget to acknowledge what has happened us – here’s one way to remind ourselves

We forget to acknowledge what has happened us – here’s one way to remind ourselves

When I qualified as a Life Coach a few years back, one of my favourite exercises to help the client become aware of their lives in the present moment was firstly to ask them to write out
Bressie: You are the true leaders – Thanks for taking part in the Vhi A Lust for Life run!

Bressie: You are the true leaders – Thanks for taking part in the Vhi A Lust for...

Standing at the starting line of the Vhi A Lust for Life run in Phoenix Park, it is hard to quantity the addictive and outstanding energy that magnifies from the 4000 participants
What tennis can teach us about newborn mental health

What tennis can teach us about newborn mental health

“You’ll spoil the baby” - ”you’re making a rod for your back” - “you’ll never get him into his own bed” - “Don’t pick him up every time he cries” - does any of this sound familiar?
4 easy breathing techniques to calm your body and mind

4 easy breathing techniques to calm your body and mind

Breathing is vital to our existence, we inhale and deliver oxygen to the body and we release carbon dioxide on our exhale. Our breath is happening all day every day
Suicide and self harm in young people – Some thoughts for parents

Suicide and self harm in young people – Some thoughts for parents

There is arguably no more frightening a discovery for a parent who one way or another finds out their child has considered or attempted suicide or intentionally harmed themselves
Cultivating mental fitness

Cultivating mental fitness

In today’s society, physical fitness gets a lot of attention. Being physically fit generally translates to looking good, but also because a healthy body can help prevent certain conditions like heart-disease and diabetes
Exploring unexpected episodes of anger and aggression

Exploring unexpected episodes of anger and aggression

It is not uncommon for people to seek professional help for sudden, unexpected episodes of anger and aggression. These episodes may occur in people who are mostly gentle, reserved, kind, caring
Bressie: Respect the mind – it deserves a workout too

Bressie: Respect the mind – it deserves a workout too

Much of what we hear in the media and throughout the expanding dialogue surrounding mental health and emotional wellbeing has been centred around distressing issues such as depression, anxiety and suicide
What makes you vulnerable makes you beautiful

What makes you vulnerable makes you beautiful

As a therapist I work with some of the most courageous yet vulnerable people imaginable
Bressie: Accept and love yourself for who you are

Bressie: Accept and love yourself for who you are

If ever a television commercial caught the essence and personality of a culture it would have to be the Aldi TV advert where a young woman refuses to take a sincere well-intentioned compliment from a friend
Mindfulness Matters – ‘Irish Weather Inside-Out’ campaign for schools and all those up for a challenge

Mindfulness Matters – ‘Irish Weather Inside-Out’ campaign for schools and all those up for a challenge

What is the most talked about subject in Ireland? The weather! What’s the least talked about subject in Ireland? Feelings and emotions or what we call the ‘Internal weather’! Mindfulness matters because everything changes moment to moment
Bullying in Irish secondary schools – Find the courage to speak out

Bullying in Irish secondary schools – Find the courage to speak out

As a previous victim of bullying in secondary school, I remember the feeling of waking up, filled with dread and anxiety putting on my uniform, walking up to the school gate
Healing self-harm

Healing self-harm

While recently mental health has been talked about more and more, and as a result stigmas have decreased, self-harm is still seen as somewhat of a taboo subject
Help: My friend is in trouble, what do I do?

Help: My friend is in trouble, what do I do?

Aware, as you might know, is Ireland’s national organisation to help people with depression or bipolar disorder and people who are concerned for someone they care about
Neuroplasticity – help your flexible brain create positive neural pathways everyday

Neuroplasticity – help your flexible brain create positive neural pathways everyday

Imagine you lived in a world where from a young age you were taught to look after your mental well-being using a similar daily routine to brushing your teeth
Bressie: Looking for that state of calm? Let it flow

Bressie: Looking for that state of calm? Let it flow

Improve mental fitness by achieving moments of 'hyper-focus', when your mind and body are in perfect fusion
Equine Therapy: How horses help people find answers within

Equine Therapy: How horses help people find answers within

I will do my best to describe the benefits of the EAGALA model of Equine Assisted Psychotherapy as a therapeutic tool for supporting people to look at their mental health
Why we need to teach children about the new science of stress

Why we need to teach children about the new science of stress

When I asked my class of 31 ten year olds recently ‘Who has experienced stress in their lives?’ every single hand went up. We then shared stories of the different events or situations
The mental trap of Chronic Insecurity

The mental trap of Chronic Insecurity

In the coming few articles I hope to explain and explore the practical ways in which we (all of us that is), as humans create our own mental traps and how this happens despite our best efforts to avoid them
Brothers in arms; “Why we need to talk, listen and act.”

Brothers in arms; “Why we need to talk, listen and act.”

Something that had been playing on my mind leading up to the World Cup was the fact that I would have to share a room with one of my team-mates
Why you should always have mindfulness as a backup without the need to become a monk

Why you should always have mindfulness as a backup without the need to become a monk

We all know physical exercise is great for mental health; it’s like fertiliser for the brain. However, if you’ve ever had a sports injury you’ll know that the toughest battle is mental
Infant mental health: A critical window of opportunity for future wellbeing and mental health

Infant mental health: A critical window of opportunity for future wellbeing and mental health

“Mental health issues are the great epidemic of this generation” were the impassioned words of musician and mental health campaigner Niall Breslin (Bressie)
Bressie: Identify your triggers to combat anxiety

Bressie: Identify your triggers to combat anxiety

I'll be honest, sometimes I have to make the same mistake three or four times before I cop on. You see, the difference with my anxiety and depression now, compared to the past is my self-awareness and ability to analyse the 'triggers'
Before we can be better, we must be well

Before we can be better, we must be well

At this prologue stage of the new year, many who committed to a new chapter of change after a debaucherous and exorbitant festive season, have reached the realisation that real positive lifestyle change can be more arduous
Feed your body so you can disempower stress and anxiety

Feed your body so you can disempower stress and anxiety

Telling an already stressed and anxious individual to ‘slow down’, ‘relax’, ‘don’t over think things’, in my mind is adding fuel to the proverbial fire
Why parental self–care is essential for children’s emotional wellbeing

Why parental self–care is essential for children’s emotional wellbeing

Parenting is a complete rollercoaster ride from conception to forever. Nothing can match up to creating a human being and witnessing their emerging personalities as they develop
Keeping well and avoiding turmeric enemas

Keeping well and avoiding turmeric enemas

Like someone who is prone to chest infections or tonsillitis, I am prone to depression and anxiety. And like someone prone to chest infections, I’m more likely to get ‘a dose’ if I haven’t been looking after myself
I wish I had let myself be happier

I wish I had let myself be happier

When Bronnie Ware took a job as a palliative care assistant nursing the dying through their final days she probably didn’t realise the experience was going to be such a transformative one
Challenge yourself and watch your life change for the better

Challenge yourself and watch your life change for the better

According to a study, one-third of people give up on their new year resolutions by the end of March, over 50% quit it by the end of June, and 92% of people fail to achieve
Support of peers was key to recovery

Support of peers was key to recovery

The last year of my life has allowed me gain a clarity of thought that for so many years escaped me. Over the recent past I have obtained and refined the knowledge to allow myself deal much more effectively with my own mental and emotional wellbeing
Helping children develop resilience, manage stress and strong emotions using the ‘90 Second Rule’

Helping children develop resilience, manage stress and strong emotions using the ‘90 Second Rule’

Research shows us that emotional regulation is one of the key factors for the development of resilience and wellbeing. This makes sense when you think about it
How to check in on someone you love

How to check in on someone you love

Even if you’re very worried about a loved one’s mental health, it can be very daunting to think about broaching the subject with them
Goal setting for the New Year – It’s simple but it’s not easy

Goal setting for the New Year – It’s simple but it’s not easy

As I write this in a hotel lobby, a Christmas song is drifting down the corridor. A soft voice is singing “It’s that time of year” It’s from a Christmas song and I’m sure you can probably sing it
How to survive a Christmas family spat

How to survive a Christmas family spat

In every relationship there are at least two topics that cannot be resolved. Christmas is not the time to discuss them. Find out what you can do to cope with family disputes during festivities
If Christmas is so merry, then why am I feeling so bad?

If Christmas is so merry, then why am I feeling so bad?

Research shows that our life satisfaction and emotional well-being is usually lower around Christmas in comparison to other times of a year. If you don’t find Christmas so merry, don’t worry, you’re not alone!
The difference between baby blues and post natal depression

The difference between baby blues and post natal depression

I still have visions of me wheeling my trolley around the postnatal ward, looking in at my most precious baby girl, tears of joy and sadness streaming down my face. What was wrong with me? Why couldn’t I hold it together?
The madness of Christmas shopping – don’t let consumerism consume you

The madness of Christmas shopping – don’t let consumerism consume you

Beware: Research shows that giving and receiving Christmas gifts may reduce our happiness
What to do if you are concerned about your teenager’s mental health

What to do if you are concerned about your teenager’s mental health

Mental health problems do occur among children and teenagers. Current statistics suggest that about 15% of young people between 12 and 15 experience a significant mental health problem (Lynch et al, 2004)
Forgiveness is for you, not anyone else

Forgiveness is for you, not anyone else

Forgiveness is not about justifying someone’s offence, forgetting their behaviour, nor reconciliation. It is way more than this. It is making yourself feel more positive. Think of a person in your life who cannot forgive, be it a friend, family member (or perhaps you)
Looking aftter your mental health, well-being and prosperity

Looking aftter your mental health, well-being and prosperity

Psychology is unique among the human sciences and helping professions for the way it uses research to help people solve or cope with problems
How to stay well when job seeking

How to stay well when job seeking

Those of us who have gone through a job hunt that’s lasted more than a couple of weeks understand the stress and energy that interviewing can involve
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A Lust For Life | Mental Health Charity Ireland
URGENT HELP
A Lust for Life does not provide crisis support, so if you or someone you are concerned about is in crisis and needs help urgently, please contact
Pieta House
PIETA HOUSE
1800 247 247
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Childline
SAMARITANS
116 123 (ROI & UK)
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Samaritans
CHILDLINE
1800 666666
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